Wednesday, February 1, 2012

Big Green Monster

I need some serious booger help, ladies. I know it's perfectly common for kids to pick their noses and eat it. But I really thought that by age 5, we'd see a sharp tapering off of this habit, at least in public. Not so much. N picks her nose all.the.time. And when she has a cold, she stubbornly refuses to give a good strong blow into a tissue, opting instead for little sniffs that allow her to s-t-r-e-t-c-h the boogers out as long as they can go, over and over.

We've warned her about the social stigma associated with nose picking (since the plain and simple "it's disgusting" doesn't seem to be making any headway), and she just giggles. Sometimes, she showcases her rich vocabulary in describing the wonderful taste of her boogers, just to drive us crazy ("But they're delectable, Mom!).

The only strategy that has had minimal success in getting her to quit is to have her go wash her hands each and every time that we catch her in the act. I like this consequence because it's logical, and it forces her to stop mid-activity and think about what she's doing. Unfortunately, this consequence sucks if we're not at home. If we're on our way to the bus stop, there's no time to turn around and go home to wash. If we're in line at a store, she knows perfectly well that I won't get out of line to take her to the bathroom. And sometimes there's just not a bathroom nearby. I don't feel like a squirt of Purell would be the same, because she likes it too much.

I know that this is one of the few things in life that she has total control over, and that it's a demonstration of power on her part. But I'm worried that soon she'll be labeled a nose-picker and kids will be cruel to her because of it. Any ideas? I'd be ever so grateful!

2 comments:

  1. I am a nose picker. I love picking my nose and my children's noses. But, alas, I am not an eater. Plenty of other ways to get your protein! If only you could predict when the event was about to occur and put hand sanitizer on before hand. That stuff tastes God awful. If only we lived in the 50's and we could wash our kids mouth out with a number of cleaning items. And if only she didn't think it was so hilarious! It honestly may just take another kid pointing it out and laughing at her. I had a good friend in elementary school with this habit. She didn't care one bit if she did it in front of me. She even called her boogers "meaty snacks" (sorry, I just gagged a little at the memory). But there was a day in 4th grade (apologies again, I'm sure you don't want to hear that we were 10) where a boy caught her doing it on the playground and told everyone who was within shouting range what she had done. Everyone else got over it, but she was mortified for weeks. Not the ideal situation, embarrassing herself all the way to therapy, but it worked.

    But seriously. Has she studied germs yet at school? Does she know other than being gross it can make her sick? Maybe throwing some of that out there would make her think twice--if she knew what she was picking out and ingesting. Or you can try the best mom in the world trick of bribery. Jelly beans when she comes to you to blow her nose instead of picking. You could even get the Harry Potter ones that taste like boogers!!! Good luck. I wish I had more answers.

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  2. Wow, the Harry Potter booger idea is the best I've ever heard! Please do that!
    I also recommend making boogers as a science project. You make fake snot, then you mix in dirt and dust and roll it into boogers. After studying and talking about what boogers are, I would think it'd be pretty tough to eat one...
    Here's a link for a lesson plan: http://www.squidoo.com/preschool-science-lesson-plans

    Ish... good luck!

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